Just a day to day (or week to week) commentary on life or a lazy way of keeping in touch with all of my friends
Wednesday, October 19, 2011
Update on the building work
Our efforts are going on getting the ground floor guest bedroom complete with en-suite ready for my Dad's visit - next weekend now. After many hours walking round Dcheira looking at wall tiles I have ended up buying something very similar to our downstairs bathroom.... and the tiler is coming on Friday to start work on that. The builder has to come back to fit the window and door frames (haven't actually got doors yet)and then we have to get some tiles for the floor and the wc, sink, taps etc, It will be nice to have one complete room - though I am not convinced it will be 100% ready before dad arrives.
Miluda is finally getting married this weekend - this is the wedding that was supposed to take place at the beginning of September. So I have been dusting off my takshita and generally getting myself ready for a party.
Thanks to everyone who sent me birthday wishes. For my birthday this year I want to take the females in my little dog walking crew to get neutered.. I guess we will have to ask Snitch's nominal owners if they are OK about that. I can't see them objecting as they take very little to do with her. I also have to wait till Trot has finished rearing her puppies first - though I am not sure how many she has and if they are still alive.... She went away to a little hidey hole to have them and although I have visited a few times I have only heard a little bit of puppy squeaking and not actually seen one so I don't know how many she has had or if they are boys or girls. She spends a fair bit of time at our back door but does not like it if the other dogs go any where near her den so I haven't been able to get a good look. The pups should be getting more mobile now so I will try and visit again this week.
Mohamed's university term has finally started. This term he has to read The Old Man and the Sea, Animal Farm and Jude the Obscure. What a strange set of books!!
Well back to work
Saturday, October 15, 2011
Saying goodbye to Little Rag
I have some very sad news. Little Rag was asleep under our car yesterday and Mohamed did not see her when he got in to drive into town. We took her to the vet but she died just as we got into the surgery. She lost a lot of blood and didn't seem conscious so I hope she wasn't in any pain.
Mohamed is really upset.
We buried her in the garden last night.
Sunday, October 9, 2011
October Catch Up
Life goes on. My friend Kate came out a couple of weeks ago and we had a lovely time, swimming in the sea, eating late breakfasts and lunches and driving through the mountains in search of saffron, caves and waterfalls (well I didn't need to search for the waterfall) and talking....
We drove all the way out to Talouine in the Anti-Atlas mountains to see the saffron harvest but were a month too early (so much for the website I looked up). Still it was a good day out and we saw some amazing countryside and had a lovely lunch - and it will be harvest time in late October and November so will be worth another trip in that direction when my next visitors arrive.
We also did the trip to Immouzzer but I could see from the hillside that there was no water in the falls so it didn't seem worth while driving all the way down just to be hassled by the local guides and souvenir sellers. We had previously gone on quite a detour looking for the Ouitinedoume (?) caves which I have seen signposted (everytime I drive along that road) but never visited. We followed a road up into the mountains but it just stopped in a carpark. There was a rough track heading off round the edge of the mountain but no signs of life and it was too hot to trek miles up the side of a mountain so we got back in the car and carried on to Immouzzer.
Back at the house we have the wiring and most of the plumbing done on Dad's room and should get a window next week. The builder is due to come next week to install the window and render the walls, then we need to get the tiling done and the bathroom fitted out... painting.. door - almost there! but less than 3 weeks to do it!
Dad is coming out for a month on 29th October and will be here for the Eid. I think Aicha and Said and the kids are coming over as well... so it will be almost like Christmas!
Ruby and the cats are well. Trot has had her puppies... not sure how many as she has them hidden away. Snitch did have puppies but I think something must have happened to them as she doesn't seem to spend much time with them - but maybe she just has them hidden away as well.
Mohamed is still waiting to hear when the new university term will start... they have started posting timetables so it looks like it might be soon but then again it might not be till after the Eid.
I think that is all the news... now to try and post some pictures (if you have already seen them you will know this has worked!)
Friday, August 26, 2011
Happy (re)Birthday Ruby
It was a year ago today that Ruby first appeared at our back door as a little skeletal dog. I can't believe it is a whole year already and can't imagine life without her now. She is such a good tempered and affectionate dog.
We are in the last few days of Ramadan now.... just hoping for a clear night when the new moon arrives. It has not been as bad as I thought it would be, but then the weather has not been so unremittingly hot as it usually is this time of year - in fact some days it has been distinctly cool.
Mohamed's sister Aicha and family are here for a few days. It is nice to see them but quite hard work... they are all staying up late and eating late and then sleeping late while I would rather get a good nights sleep (not really possible with a house full of fully awake Moroccans) and get up early (which I have to do to work and feed animals) and so would prefer to eat earlier.... but I guess it is only for a few days. It would be better if it wasn't Ramadan though.
I think his other sister Khadija will be here for a few days next week.
We have just about cleared up all the concrete dust and rubble and are getting things together to start on finishing a room upstairs so that guests (who don't want to sleep on the living room floor) will have a bedroom with ensuite - with the aim of getting it ready for my Dad when he visits in October/November.
and that is about all the news.
I hope you are all well.
Monday, August 1, 2011
Ramadan Kareem
Well the other week we went to the house-warming party at Aisha and Said's new house. It was the first time I had been to the house for a while and it was looking very lovely and surprisingly light - I was worried that it would be dark with the lack of windows.
The party was a big affair (not the family lunch and dinner I was expecting). We went on Thursday which was officially ladies night (though there were a lot of men there) and there was a disco upstairs on the roof for dancing as well as the out door kitchen with the cooks cooking up huge amounts of tagine and chicken and sfah (sweet couscous)etc etc.... My new best friend is Fatima the professional cook who was brought in for 3 days to get all the food prepared and cooked.
On Friday it was men's day where the men all come and read from the Koran and eat couscous and no doubt sit around talking seriously about weighty things.
And at the end of the night Miluda and M'bark got formally engaged. This wedding has been talked about for over a year and will finally take place in early September - once Ramadan is over. M'bark is the younger brother of the father of Jamia (Rachid's wife)... so large families grow larger. I first met them when I took photos of his sister's wedding. They seem like a really lovely family and live on a farm just at the edge of Taroudant - which I guess will be Miluda's new home. Mbark works in the Shell garage in town.
On the home front we are in the final throes of building building work. The walls on the roof are just about finished so now I can go on the roof without worrying about falling over the edge (my worry) or being seen by the neighbours (Mohamed's worry).
It was quite funny when the stairs were complete Ruby would not go up onto the roof. She was really freaked out by it all....and it is not about being at height as she goes rock climbing all the time. The cats went up and explored and started chasing each other round almost straight away. I think it is that cats are very much in the present. They know perfectly well that it is a new roof and that it wasn't there before... but it is here now and that is all that matters. Dogs on the other hand (or Ruby anyway) worry about change.
And our other news... well Mohamed's results for the year are out and it looks like he is top of the year. So well done to him.
I will post some photos some time when I have a better internet speed.
Monday, July 11, 2011
July
Tuesday, June 28, 2011
Scorchio
Friday, June 17, 2011
June, Moon etc
We are waiting to hear what the new Constitution is going to look like... no date but it must be nearly due out and there has been some comment on what is in it on TV (leaks I think).
Sunday, June 5, 2011
Bread fail
Saturday, June 4, 2011
More Roof
Saturday, May 28, 2011
The Roof (the whole roof.....)
Other news that I have just heard is that one of my Dad's dogs has died. Kessie lived to a good age - I seem to remember going to pick her out on my Dad's 70th birthday and he is almost 84 (though I think my Dad says she was 15 so maybe I have got that wrong). I remember it was really difficult finding puppies, because I said was getting one for my Dad, Munlochy Animal Aid would not give me one. Anyhow we ended up going to look at a litter in Carnarc Crescent and Dad ending up taking two pups: Kessy and Bridie named after the Kessock Bridge. Poor Bridie will be lost without her sister and I know my Dad is also feeling the loss. The house will be a lot quieter as Kessie always had a lot to say for herself.
Wednesday, May 25, 2011
Work in Progess
In the meantime here is a picture
I thought this was Ruby, but on closer inspection it is in fact Trot, sneaking in to eat leftover couscous. For some reason the neighbours decided to give everyone lunch yesterday. I will be doing lunch on Thursday (fingers crossed) when the concreting is being done..... and I do prepare a massive breakfast twice a day but have drawn the line at providing lunch everyday.
Thursday, May 19, 2011
Quick News
Yesterday we (me, Ruby, Trot and Marmela) saw two snakes while out on our walk... the first was a large but mostly harmless Montpellier's snake. The second was (I think) a beautiful but deadly silver Moorish Viper. It was hunting in the thorn hedge. You can read more of our dog walking adventures on walkingthedogs.tumblr.com where I keep a daily journal of the walks.
I will get some photos of the construction online soon.
Monday, May 16, 2011
This week we have had weather
I am slowly getting back to normal. I have a little exercise routine which I do most days. I have to say I was very disappointed when I went back to the doctor and he said carry on with the Lyrica and come back in 2 months... but then I also expected it as I did still have some pain in my right ankle and hip. However I am now feeling much better, much more normal though I feel as if I have lost a lot of fitness.
Ruby and I are getting out for proper walks - usually with Trot and we are slowly building up the distance that we cover.... though a lot does depend on when I get out and what the weather is doing. Yesterday was so heavy, humid and hot that I really struggled to get one foot in front of the other.
I am hoping that we will start building again sometime this week (or next) it should have been today but the guy with the wood (to make the shuttering for the roof) let us down. Wood from a different source is supposed to arrive today or tomorrow. We have decided not to wait till the license comes through as there is a "window of opportunity" that will close in a few weeks when the new constitution is announced. At the moment there seems to be a bit of laissez faire going on. In the village there are at least 2 new houses being built from the ground and lots of additions being made. All this means that the price of wood and labour has gone up. We are getting wood from Taroudant which is cheaper - even considering the transport costs (our own anyway).
It will be strange not being able to go up to the roof. It will be a while before the stairs to the new roof will be built. Once the roof is on we will start with the wiring and plumbing and then doors and windows, plasterwork, tiling etc etc as and when we get the cash. If we manage to get Ouled Said sold that will mean we can just get it all done... but bit by bit it will be finished.
Well time I put some clothes on (remind me to tell you the story of buying trousers) and get out with the dogs. For once I am not exactly sure what I should wear... will I need a jacket or not?
Saturday, April 30, 2011
More April Flowers
This first is my lovely mystery flower.
I first saw it (single specimen) when I was on one of my trial walks... still very wobbly and dizzy. When I went back to get a photograph of it - it had disappeared. I was seriously thinking I had dreamed (or hallucinated) it - but then I realised that someone had grazed a herd of goats over the land and they had eaten everything apart from the prickly stuff. Anyway on Thursday I finally spotted another plant.
From above it looks like not very much, the original plant I saw was not so yellow but the actual flowers are really pretty.
Also found what looks like a young plant just growing.
This is another pretty flower that grows in quite large clumps, just tiny little pink petals showing among the grey....
On Thursday I saw one of these seedheads, with 5 bees arranged on it as if they were mimicking petals - of course I didn't have my camera that day! It must have some really sweet stuff.
and here is Trot.
She comes with us for most of our walks and I give her breakfast most days. I call her Trot because I was reading David Copperfield when she first turned up, and because she moves in trot all the time.... and tells us to "hurrrrrahhurrah hurry" all the way home.
Thursday, April 28, 2011
April Flowers
There was so many of these yellow flowers that the bottoms of my trousers turned yellow.
On the hill beside the house there is still a lot of greenness though the longer grasses have all seeded. Elsewhere the green has been scorched dry again for another year.
This strange flowering bulb came and went very quickly, if I had been a week longer incapacitated I might have missed it. It is one of the many bulbs that do well here, and an amazing colour. If anyone can put a name to it I would love to know. (Update: I have since found out that it is a Tassel Hyacinth)
April
I am starting to get further afield in my walks, and as we have daylight saving at the moment I am able to get out a little later in the evening and enjoy a bit of coolness.
The day before yesterday I was late setting off and Ruby and I just went along the hillside - which was just as well as I looked behind us and found not only Trot and Snitch following but also one of Snitch's puppies! We are getting to be quite a procession - especially when Marmela comes.
What other news..... I know I did promise you some.
Well I finally got my new carte de sejour and it is valid for 3 years (though only just over 2 years are remaining since it took 9 months to arrive!)
We have taken the first, crucial steps to getting the land at Ouled Said titled. We managed to avoid the inconvenience of my name being on the papers (ie a foreigner therefore not allowed to do anything with the land without the Minister of Foreign Affairs approval) and so now we have to go through the process. I think it takes a bit of time but hopefully no more snags. ... and then we will sell it. Although we originally intended to go back there, I really love it here and don't want to move, and it is much better for Mohamed to be near Agadir - especially now he is doing his university course.
We are also working on getting a license to build the house, Mohamed is in town today with the architect who is drawing the plans. I am hopeful that this will mean we can get building in a couple of weeks (but that might be a Moroccan couple of weeks - ie a few months).
The villagers have managed to get the aqueduct cleared of earth and stones washed down by the rain this spring and we have water running as far as and into the river. The pipes that crossed the river were swept away so will need to be replaced before we have the water running all the way into the village. I think this year they should build a suspension bridge - input from any civil engineers (or budding civil engineers) would be welcome.
There has, despite rumours, been no progress on getting the mains water running in the village... no progress on the building of the water tower and no prog.... and electricity has just cut for the second time today... so bye for now
Sunday, April 10, 2011
Catching Up
The end of the week also coincided with a visit from Mohamed's sister Aicha and her husband and children. Always nice to see them though they are a bit of a rowdy crowd. I dread to think what it would have been like if I didn't have the train set and building blocks for the boys to play with.
Snitch has had 5 puppies, though there are only two around just now. I am trying not to get too involved..... and Mohamed's sister managed to get back home without one of the boys smuggling a puppy into the car.
Ruby is just lovely, she passed the Nutella test with flying colours and sat patiently while a 2 year manipulated her jowls and ears.
All the cats are well except for Marmela who has some unfortunate diarrhoea .... sometimes very unfortunate. If it doesn't get better she will have to have a trip to the vet.
All this lying and sleeping has actually had some good results - being really up to date with the news, when there was a lot of real news is one, but the best being that I managed to work out a recipe for the chicken with sauce that is served at weddings etc and in the chicken restaurants in Agadir. I am going to post the recipe on the Morocco Gateway to Dreams blog - if the internet will permit.
On the subject of news... so far things are fairly calm in Morocco though there have been some demonstrations and probably more trouble than has actually been reported in the Moroccan news. The King has taken some pre-emptive steps and promised a review of the constitution giving more power to the democratically elected assembly and also devolving more power to the provinces, more action to reduce unemployment, improved rights for women... all good things but - I am holding my breathe a little. On TV there seems to be a lot of heated discussion about Berber or Amirzigh rights with a big push for it to be recognised as one of the official languages.
I have more news... but need to go and stand up or lie down. Back soon.
Friday, April 1, 2011
back again!
Yes I have had a horrible month totally incapacitated by back pain! I don't think it was any one thing but just built up since last year when I hurt it pulling water from the well. Anyway after some really horrendous pain I went to see the doctor I saw a few years ago. He pronounced it serious ... no reflex all the way down my right leg ... and said that I might need surgery to get the disc back in place. Sent me off with a prescription for a range of drugs and asked to see me again in a week... or was it two??
Anyway the pain was less with the drugs but they made me very dizzy and drowsy and still unable to sit. So I spent a few weeks lying and sleeping interrupted only by some back exercises... oh and watching daytime tv and news... what a month of news!
The doctor is happy with my progress and surgery is no longer required. We have a new, very firm, mattress and I have a dustpan with a long handle that I can use to pick up and put down things like cat food bowls. This week I started back working and also walking Ruby again - just short walks.
It is great to be getting back to normality - but I can't overdo the sitting and must keep up the exercise.
I will post some more soon but just thought I should let you know that I hadn't fallen off the edge of the world.
Friday, February 25, 2011
some piccies
Monday, February 21, 2011
time to catch up
Yes I seem to be constantly apologizing for not writing... though I don’t feel too guilty as I do write a bit more regularly than other people :).
I have been a bit under the weather... I think I have an inner ear infection which has been making me feel a bit dizzy. I say I think as it has not been bad enough to go to the doctor though it has been going on for a while now so maybe I should. I had something similar a few years ago and I seem to remember the only thing the doctor could give me was something that made me feel totally doped up... so I think I would prefer just to deal with the dizziness.
I also hurt my back – not sure what I did but a few nights sleeping on the floor and being very careful about what I do seem to have sorted that out – though my hip has started hurting now. The hip though painful is not as incapacitating as the back pain was.
There is not really any news to report. The weather has not been so wet as last February (which shouldn’t be surprising as that was the wettest spring for 35 years) but there has been enough rain for the beautiful spring to continue. There are now masses of little white crocuses and alium (I think it must be what the locals call wolf’s onions) and here and there some beautiful dwarf iris and some wild clematis and little patches of aquilegia. I had not seen much in the way of wild pigs recently until today when I saw a whole family with lots of little babies.... so maybe they haven’t been out much while the babies were being born.
I had an unpleasant encounter on Friday... and have debated whether or not I should blog on it since it will be bound to cause sisters etc to over-worry but I think I need to give you all my news.. the good with the bad rather than just sugar coating everything. So starting with I am fine – what happened was that a man tried to molest me... This is something that Mohamed has always said might happen – apparently all Moroccan men think all foreign women just want to have sex with them... especially when they are out walking on the hills with their dog!
So I was out walking Ruby on Friday. For the first time since my back problems we set off to do a good walk, crossing the river with the aim of going up and along Camel Hill and then back by the Horse Valley. I saw a man coming up the path behind me and thought I would lose him when I turned off the track to start climbing the hill but instead he ran to intercept and catch up with me and kept following when I turned and started walking back the way I had come. At this point I stopped to try and see what he would do and what he did was come right up to me and lunge at me... trying to grab hold of me and kiss me.
Luckily for me, the last time I was out on a long walk I found a stick and had was carrying it with me. When I found it, I was in two minds whether to keep it or not as it is a little short and quite hefty – but I thought maybe my dad could make me a nice handle for it when he came out....and I thought it would be good while I was having this bit of dizziness. Any way I raised my stick to ward him off and he grabbed the stick and we wrestled for a few moments and I managed to hit him in the side of the head with it often enough for him to decide to back off. When he did that I could see that I had managed to cut his nose a bit... He went off in the direction of the track that goes through to the next village, muttering to himself, and seemingly disappointed to find out that I was not as expected.
I set off home – a little worried that he might double back and try again, or go for reinforcements... anyway I went home the long way and made sure I wasn’t being followed and got home safely, a little shaken but actually more angry than anything and determined not to let him spoil anything more than this one walk.
Mohamed came home just after I got in and together we went in the car to the villages over at the other end of the track to see if we could find him... we both thought that he needed to be taught a lesson but that we needed to have a bit more information before we went to the police. But we didn’t find him and don’t really know where he comes from or where he was going so in the end we didn’t go to the police. Mohamed asked around our village to see if anyone had seen him and then went back round the villages with one of the neighbours but still didn’t manage to track him down.
Oh and Ruby and Snitch (who were both with me) were totally useless... Ruby just carried on hunting squirrels while this went on!
While we were on our manhunt we went into some really nice countryside... there is a lake on the other side of the hills that I didn’t know was there!
As I said I am determined that this is not going to spoil my enjoyment of my walks. On the whole Morocco is much, much safer than the UK. I am aware that Moroccans have a funny idea of foreigners and that men have a funny idea of how to treat women and what women should and should not do. I tend not to engage with other people while I am on my own and always make sure I am suitably dressed. Usually if I see someone, I take a detour to avoid meeting them. It does go against my natural inclination to be open and friendly with people – but when in Rome....
I do think it is appalling that anyone should believe that it is OK just to go up and grab another person and feel possibly even angrier that the same man would not have attempted anything on a Moroccan woman. The people that Mohamed spoke to were quite shocked that anyone locally would do such a thing.... it is the sort of behaviour that they expect from city dwellers – or arabs! The neighbours apparently said that I should just go for walks on the home hill and not stray too far. There is a very tribal mentality and an innocent or naive belief that women are safe with the men they know!
I would also guess that if the same thing had happened to a Moroccan woman – certainly to a young unmarried girl – she would probably not have said anything as the repercussions on her and her reputation would make life difficult for her – and I wonder if the same guy or others have got away with doing what they like with Moroccan women for that precise reason. And so Moroccan women do not go out walking except in the company of other people and it is commonly believed that women should be constantly scared for their safety..... for me it is one sign of an unhealthy society and it needs to change.
I will continue to take my stick and be aware of who else is on the hill with me and I will see if I can get hold of some pepper spray. I will be happier if we manage to find the man and take him to the local Sheriff... but I am not too confident that will happen now. Mohamed still thinks I should have a big dog for protection – or even that I should carry a gun! I can’t really see myself carrying a gun let alone using one and I think it is a bit OTT.
But I am not going to start living afraid to do something.
Any way on a lighter note I have had a couple of really good ideas recently and thought I would share them with you.
The first is not so much an idea as a thought. Rosie was sharing a photo of her latest pair of shoes with me – lovely purple suede with cross over straps and a gold ankle buckle – as she said “it is like wearing Prince” and while I loved them I could not imagine wearing them as the heels were just too high. Then it struck me that when I am old(er) and wheelchair bound they would be the ideal shoes to wear! Who cares if you can’t walk in them - you can sit and look at them!
This would also work with really delicate shoes eg with sequins that would just fall off when you walked in them. So now when you see a pair of shoes that you would love but cannot imagine being able to wear.... buy them and stockpile them for your old age! I already have one pair – high heels, gold sequins almost impossible to walk in. (and before the nay sayers weigh in with but what if your feet are arthritic and out of shape ... well I will just have an operation!)
So my other cunning plan came to me when I was thinking about poor Snitch (Ruby’s friend) who is now heavily pregnant... more unwanted puppies on the way. How about a dog sponsoring scheme? People who would like a dog but live in a flat in a city or are out at work all day could send me a monthly amount and I could feed the village dogs, get them all neutered, maybe foster them out and keep a daily blog of walks I do with photos of the dogs and things we find. We could even extend it to people coming for dog walking holidays! What do you think...kind of a cross between a penpal and adopting an orphan or sponsoring a child? Almost like a virtual pet. Answers on a postcard please.
Monday, January 17, 2011
Climb every mountain!
Scratching my head to think what I have been doing for the last couple of weeks..... and haven't really come up with anything. It has been busy time work-wise.
Monday, January 3, 2011
Happy New Year
Happy New Year everyone... and Happy Birthday Jo.
The rain has done a lot of damage to the road, especially the road going up to the spring and our river walks have changed... landmark boulders have been moved or covered with gravel and more boulders. The aqueduct has no water in it, and has been filled in with rocks and gravel almost all the way along... and the pipes where it crossed the river have been swept away. The village will have to get together and clear it all before the dry season bites. It was nice this year having water in the village pond all year round - well nice for the goats and donkeys and dogs and little boys that used to swim in it in the hot summer weather - and convenient for everyone else.